Metamorphosis

Death Care & Celebration of Life Services

Compassionate death doula services and memorial planning, honoring every soul's unique passage with dignity, love, and celestial grace.

About Jessica

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Walking Beside You Through Sacred Transitions

I’m Jessica Gilder. founder and practicing death doula at Metamorphosis Death Care and Memorial Services. I believe that death is not an ending, but a transformation— a sacred journey from one realm to another, much like the moth's metamorphosis.

Just as the stars guide travelers through the night, I am here to illuminate the path for you and your loved ones. My practice combines professional death doula training with heartfelt compassion, understanding that each soul's journey is unique.

Whether you're planning ahead, supporting a loved one in their final days, or seeking guidance through grief, I offer a gentle hand and a listening heart. My services are designed to bring peace, clarity, and meaning to one of life's most profound experiences.

Certified Death Doula | Grief Support Specialist | Memorial Celebrant

Services

Compassionate Care for Every Step

From advance planning to memorial celebrations, I offer comprehensive support to honor life's most sacred transitions with grace and dignity.

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    End-of-Life Planning

    Compassionate guidance through advance directives, living wills, and personal wishes documentation. I help you articulate your desires for care and comfort.

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    Vigil Support

    Peaceful presence during the final days and hours. I provide emotional support, comfort measures, and guidance for families during this sacred transition.

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    Memorial Planning

    Create meaningful celebrations of life that honor your loved one's unique journey. From intimate gatherings to personalized ceremonies under the stars.

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    Grief Support

    Gentle companionship through the waves of grief. I offer ongoing support, resources, and a safe space to process loss at your own pace.

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    Legacy Projects

    Preserve precious memories through life story documentation, memory books, video tributes, and meaningful keepsakes that honor a life well-lived.

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    Family Guidance

    Navigate difficult conversations and decisions together. I facilitate family meetings and provide resources to help everyone feel heard and supported.

Get in Touch

Begin Your Journey with Me

Whether you're seeking support for yourself or a loved one, I'm here to listen and guide you with compassion. Reach out to start a conversation about how I can walk beside you through this sacred time.

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Available 24/7 for urgent needs

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I respond within 24 hours

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